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I think these are the things that guys shoould know about, if they want to get on a girl’s good side and maybe this will also help guys understand girls more.

1. Girls are sentimental.

That’s a random fact. A girl always likes to remember important things in her life. She also likes to cherish the moments that made her happy and the simple gifts or letters that she received.  Like taking her out to see the stars, I’m sure she’ll have that image of you two under the night skies tattoed in her head. Or giving her a handwritten letter, I’m sure she’ll keep that in box and reads it when she misses you. Just give her something that she would love to remember and cherish then I’m sure she’ll be hooked.

2. Girls like hearing compliments.

I mean, who doesn’t? But you know, Girls, no matter, how strong and confident they may seem. They still would want other people to notice and compliment them.  It’s not like their waiting on other people’s approval but it is theirway of knowing that they are appreciated. SO If you like a girl, make sure sure you compliment her in all the right ways. Never overcompliment her because she may think that you are insincere. Never undercompliment her because she may think you don’t know her worth. In other words, don’t say anything that you don’t really mean.

3. GIRLS like a guy who treats her well.

I know, most guys think that girls are into bad boys and the good guys are always left in the friends zone. But this isn’t true. Sure, AT one point in Every girl’s life, she may spend her time and energy chasing a bad boy and hoping that she’d be the one to change him. But sooner or later, when she is exhausted and  aware  that sometimes bad boys are just merely bad boys and there isn’t anything mysterious about it and she can never change him for the better because that’s just how he is, She will snap back to reality and she’ll remember that she deserves a guy who’s willing to do right by her and someone she can definitely rely on. So that’s your cue guys, Bad boys are just short experiments. Good guys are life-long journeys! So try your best to be a good guy. 🙂

4. Girls like a guy who can make her laugh.

Girls would definitely like a guy with a good sense of humor. Someone who can make her laugh. Someone whom she can be silly with. Someone whom she can be herself with. It doesn’t matter if you have bad comic timing or you always throw the punch line wrong a girl know how to appreciate the efforts you give in order to make her laugh.

5. GIRLS who say NO really means No.

Yes. I know most guys think girls like to play hard-to-get and sometimes they really do play hard-to-get. But trust me, you know the difference. If you like a girl says no to you yet still gives you signals then she is playing hard to get, all you have to do is just reachout to her more and be patient with her then you can definitely win her over. But if a girl says no to you and she’s making an effort for you to notice the boundaries and she keeps on turning you down, then she is not pplaying hard-to-get, she simply saying not-gonna-happen. It sucks, I know. But maybe she is just not the girl for you.

P.S.

I have no scientific proof with regards to this.

This are just my humble thoughts.

If you have anything to add or you have complaints, Please

say it in a nice way. 🙂 Thanks

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“Perhaps we all give the best of our hearts uncritically–to those who hardly think about us in return.”
― T.H. WhiteThe Once and Future King

It makes me wonder what pushed the brilliant author, T.H. White, to write those hauntingly painful words. It makes me want to ask him “Who broke your heart?”.

Well, I guess I will never know why he wrote those words. But I know why I can relate to it. It seems like an arrow was shot directly to my heart. There I go again, with my sad sobby words. Anyway, I think most of us at one point in our lives experienced giving the best of our hearts to people who can’t do the same for us.

And It is such a shame when you have so much love to give but the person you intend to give it to just couldn’t take it. But that’s how love works, you may never know if your love will ever be reciprocated. That’s what’s beautiful about it, the elements of mystery and surprise.

Loving is not a walk in the park especially if the object of affection  does not love you in return.

But True love means not asking for something in return. It does not involve rushing to be in a relationship and it isn’t even about just finding someone to get you through your cold nights!

True love is about learning how to wait patiently for the perfect timing and for the person perfect for you. It’s about giving and giving even more. It’s about knowing that you found that one person that you want to spend you whole life with and making him feel always loved and wanted. Its about respecting yourself and the other person.

How I wish, we could all just find true love and live happily every after, just like in the movies.

But then Again, this is real life and life is what we make it and love like you have never been hurt before.