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Yes, This is the counterpart of my post a few weeks back, “5 facts about girls”. It took me a while to create a follow-up on that post because it is really hard to figure out boys especially if you are a girl. ūüôā Anyway so I decided to just decided to take my time and observe until I can actually come up with my own hypotheis or whatever you want to call it. Again, I am not claiming that everything written here is correct. These are just my humbled thoughts.

So without further a do. Here it is.

1. Boys love to date naughty girls for fun but they date good girls for love.

Well. I think this is self-explanatory.

2.  Boys never really like girls with heavy make-up on. They dig our no make-up look.

Yes.¬†Boys like girls who¬†look neat¬†and presentable but they don’t really like girls who look like they will be accepting an acting hoour every single moment of the day. It is okay to put on a little make-up every once in a while. But if you’re everyday look consists of putting¬†layers of foundation in your face, the concealer, then powder, then add eye shadow,¬†and eve liner, eye brow liner, mascara, blush on, lipstick,¬†and lip gloss then that’ something you’d have to think twice about. You don’t want¬†your bf or boy-friends to not be able to recognize you when they¬†surprise you in your house and see your no-make-up look.¬†Unless, you also have the¬†heavy make-up on at home.

3. Boys’s eyes may glance for a few seconds sexy girls but¬†there will always be this girl¬†that he just can’t¬†stop staring at.

¬†As the saying goes “Boys will be boys.” Yes, Physical attributes can really draw the attention of the guys but when eventually found someone who they love staring at then there will be¬†a few moments that they will glance but they will never stare because the already have their eyes set on someone else.

4. Boys love spending time with the girls they love but they also need their Boys night out.

Ofcourse, Every guy loves to spend time with their gf or special someone but there will always be a time that they will crave to hang out with his gang. Let him do so! Let them have their testosterone-fest! Don’t worry.

5. Guys like to make the first move but they don’t mind¬†if girls¬†make the first move.

Yes I think that though we are already in the year 2012, still, most guys are the ones who are doing the first move. However, I think guys in our time¬†no longer care if¬†they¬†made the first move or not. As long as you two have chemistry, then he woudn’t mind!

The end. ūüôā Hope to hear from ya!

Another long deep breath

for a closing argument.

Another awkward silence

in the heated moment.

Afraid to say something wrong.

She said nothing at all.

He’s been waiting for so long.

Her answers are stalled.

He wants to talk about it.

She¬†doesn’t want to argue.

He¬†tried to say what’s in his head.

She believed it was untrue.

Doubt fills up her heart.

He’s slowly drifting away.

He was looking for a reason

for him to even stay.

She just let it all passed by.

She think It’ll be over soon.

He caught another’s eye.

The attention made him swoon.

While she pretended everything will be alright.

though that’s not what her heart and mind tells.

He decided to spend the night,

Not with her but with somebody else.

Looking inside and wanting to belong,

Curled up in bed with heart beating strong.

Closed lip sighs, another pain locked away.

Vows you want to make but it was never the right day.

Taking a leap, you have been waiting for so long.

Immense in a state where heart is breaking in the sun.

Opened up yourself and wishing him to stay.

But he was never in love, he just cared anyway.

You tell yourself it’s okay. You tried to give your best shot.

But you were never okay with the fact that he loves you not.

You chose to put on a face. So determined, so willing, so brave.

But unraveling the mask, you are trapped in loneliness’s grave.

Crackling sounds of thunder is not helping your case.

Falling is a kind of blunder and believing is such a waste.

You were on the brink of giving up the love you always want.

But just before you were to cut ends loose, he extended his hand.

He reached to you and suddenly you feel no reason to be sad.

Your heart skipped a beat and you swore it was the best day you ever had.

Truth to be told,

I need you to hold.

My Hand, My Heart.

When can we even start?

Truth to be said,

You piled up in my head.

Your smile, Your skin.

My defenses are turning thin.

That’s the¬†truth locked inside of¬†me.

 I am already setting it free.

Now that you have it in your hands…

Are you going to tell me, Where I should stand?

You’re in my thoughts

but I’m alone with my doubts

There’s¬†words in your silence

but I can’t figure it out.

You took a deep breath

while I was holding mine.

And all this time I wondered,

how can your eyes be so thine?

I glanced at you,

and now I never looked away.

Even when your not here,

you’re still the highlight of my day.

I wonder if you have someone there..

Do you think she’s the one?

At times when you need someone to be there for you,

Does she stay and hold you hand?

Maybe I just wonder about you most of the time.

I want to know how your day was.

I want to be able say goodnight.

But these things can’t happen

because I am nowhere in your sight.

‚ÄúPerhaps we all give the best of our hearts uncritically–to those who hardly think about us in return.‚ÄĚ
‚Äē¬†T.H. White,¬†The Once and Future King

It makes me wonder what pushed the brilliant author, T.H. White, to write those hauntingly painful words. It makes me want to ask him “Who broke your heart?”.

Well, I guess I will never know why he wrote those words. But I know why I can relate to it. It seems like an arrow was shot directly to my heart. There I go again, with my sad sobby words. Anyway, I think most of us at one point in our lives experienced giving the best of our hearts to people who can’t do the same for us.

And It is such a shame when you have so much love to give but the person you intend to give it to just couldn’t take it. But that’s how love works, you may never know if your love will ever be reciprocated. That’s what’s beautiful about it, the elements of mystery and surprise.

Loving is not a walk in the park especially if the object of affection  does not love you in return.

But True love means not asking for something in return. It does not involve rushing to be in a relationship and it isn’t even about just finding someone to get you through your cold nights!

True love is about learning how to wait patiently for the perfect timing and for the person perfect for you. It’s about giving and giving even more. It’s about knowing that you found that one person that you want to spend you whole life with and making him feel always loved and wanted. Its about respecting yourself and the other person.

How I wish, we could all just find true love and live happily every after, just like in the movies.

But then Again, this is real life and life is what we make it and love like you have never been hurt before.

You walked my way yet you passed me by.

I said hello but you never said “hi”.

I wrote you letters, you never wrote me back.

You just didn’t care,that’s a fact.


So this is what it feels like to be ignored…

Surprisingly, not a very good feeling.

When he’s all that you can think of

and to him you have no meaning.


So this is how it feels to be unwanted…¬†

When you’re willing to give him the world

and to him you’re just nothing.


I’d like to think that someday….

It will get better.

I’d like to think that someday you will notice.


But until that day comes,

I’ll just settle with the feeling of being ignored.

while you remain unaware of what you are missing. ūüôā

She was gone,,.

And no matter how bright the sun shines, 

there’s still this incomprehensible coldness in him.


She was gone…

And no matter how high he reached,

he still cannot touch her.


She was gone…

And no matter how much effort he exerts,

he still can’t get over her lost.


She was gone…

And no matter how hard he works for his all his dreams,

but his dream to have her back again can never come true.


Because she was gone.

She was taken away from this life

and she is not coming back.

Only in the glimpse of his past can he see,

the beauty that meant the world to him.


He lost his first believer when he lost her.

He lost the propeller of his plane.

He lost his dear mother.

He’s trying to move on.

But I know his smiles will never be the same.





And then he was blind because he couldn’t see that

she’s waiting for him to notice her presence.


And then he was deaf because he couldn’t¬†

hear her heart beating faster than usual because of his presence.


And then he was mute because he couldn’t

speak the words that she would like to hear him say.


And the he was numb because he couldn’t

feel that hurt that she’s feeling.


And then she was gone because she knew that no matter how

hard she tries she’ll never be the person that he yearns for.



So here’s a song called “My Never” by Blue October.

I never really liked the month, October, because its always the time of year that I feel so sad, and I lost my Father almost 20 years ago on the same month but I like Blue October! There’s something in their songs that some how takes me to a place wherein I can feel the intensity of the words and pain, or love. I can’t explain it, but somehow, I think they are one of the really great bands there is.

Anyway, This song, My Never, probably its one of the saddest songs I have ever heard. Yea, I know, just like most of my works, It is also about a love that can never happen. Maybe you’re thinking that that’s my kind of thing, But it’s not. But It’s one of the few things that I actually know something about, and you know what they say, You should write about things that you know. Hope you guys like it! ūüôā





Note: I do not own the song and the video

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in Youtube.