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LIke a lovestruck teenager,

I am holding onto you.

But you don’t even know me,

you never had a clue.

About the love I feel,

Or the dreams I have inside.

You don’t even think about me,

yet you’re always in my mind.

Like a lovestruck teenager,

I’m writing letters everyday.

Though I never had the guts to send ’em to you.

But I keep on writing anyway.

About the everything I feel,

And all the love I want to give.

But you were always with someone else.

And my love, you cannot receive.

Still like a lovestruck teenager,

I am not afraid to let you know.

That your smile is my favorite vision.

and I can never let you go.

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Yes, This is the counterpart of my post a few weeks back, “5 facts about girls”. It took me a while to create a follow-up on that post because it is really hard to figure out boys especially if you are a girl. ūüôā Anyway so I decided to just decided to take my time and observe until I can actually come up with my own hypotheis or whatever you want to call it. Again, I am not claiming that everything written here is correct. These are just my humbled thoughts.

So without further a do. Here it is.

1. Boys love to date naughty girls for fun but they date good girls for love.

Well. I think this is self-explanatory.

2.  Boys never really like girls with heavy make-up on. They dig our no make-up look.

Yes.¬†Boys like girls who¬†look neat¬†and presentable but they don’t really like girls who look like they will be accepting an acting hoour every single moment of the day. It is okay to put on a little make-up every once in a while. But if you’re everyday look consists of putting¬†layers of foundation in your face, the concealer, then powder, then add eye shadow,¬†and eve liner, eye brow liner, mascara, blush on, lipstick,¬†and lip gloss then that’ something you’d have to think twice about. You don’t want¬†your bf or boy-friends to not be able to recognize you when they¬†surprise you in your house and see your no-make-up look.¬†Unless, you also have the¬†heavy make-up on at home.

3. Boys’s eyes may glance for a few seconds sexy girls but¬†there will always be this girl¬†that he just can’t¬†stop staring at.

¬†As the saying goes “Boys will be boys.” Yes, Physical attributes can really draw the attention of the guys but when eventually found someone who they love staring at then there will be¬†a few moments that they will glance but they will never stare because the already have their eyes set on someone else.

4. Boys love spending time with the girls they love but they also need their Boys night out.

Ofcourse, Every guy loves to spend time with their gf or special someone but there will always be a time that they will crave to hang out with his gang. Let him do so! Let them have their testosterone-fest! Don’t worry.

5. Guys like to make the first move but they don’t mind¬†if girls¬†make the first move.

Yes I think that though we are already in the year 2012, still, most guys are the ones who are doing the first move. However, I think guys in our time¬†no longer care if¬†they¬†made the first move or not. As long as you two have chemistry, then he woudn’t mind!

The end. ūüôā Hope to hear from ya!


Another long deep breath

for a closing argument.

Another awkward silence

in the heated moment.

Afraid to say something wrong.

She said nothing at all.

He’s been waiting for so long.

Her answers are stalled.

He wants to talk about it.

She¬†doesn’t want to argue.

He¬†tried to say what’s in his head.

She believed it was untrue.

Doubt fills up her heart.

He’s slowly drifting away.

He was looking for a reason

for him to even stay.

She just let it all passed by.

She think It’ll be over soon.

He caught another’s eye.

The attention made him swoon.

While she pretended everything will be alright.

though that’s not what her heart and mind tells.

He decided to spend the night,

Not with her but with somebody else.


Small talks and Stolen glances

Hands are tied

¬†But you’re taking chances

Just looking in yet standing outside

smells like another sin.

Stepped a toe out of line

Take your chances, thinking it is fine.

You removed your ring,

Rehearse your lines.

Let the games begin….

He’s¬†playing¬†his cards.

With coolness and suave

She’s taking part, hoping to love.

In the dark. In the night.

Two bodies collide.

She’s playing her heart.

He’s using his mind.

Now He got what he wanted.

He got rid of the heat.

He left her with nothing

but promises he couldn’t keep.


As I understand that the nature of my site is getting¬†a little to dim because of my recent health-related problems and the same old, same old melancholy of a girl who feels lost. ūüôā So now, I am trying to shake things up a little by posting the first ever humor post (or an attempt at one).

I don’t know if all of you are aware but Nowadays,¬†bat-shit crazy pick-up lines are really a sensation in the Philippines. So I just want to share some of the pick-up lines that I have heard and read. Ofcourse, I am going to translate it to english as most pick-up lines here in our country are conveniently being stated in our own language which is FILIPINO.

So here goes my attempt to be funny.:)

1. Boy: Are you a manure?

    Girl: Why?

¬†¬†¬† Boy: Because I can never ever treat you like a toy. ūüôā

    ***This line is from a local movie.

2.  Boy: Are you a spoon?

     Girl: Why?

¬†¬†¬†¬† Boy: Because everytime I see you my jaw always drop. ūüôā

3. Boy: Are you a robber?

    Girl: Why?

¬†¬†¬† Boy: Because I will definitely give you everything, just don’t hurt me. ūüôā

4. Boy: Are you a testpaper?

    Girl: Why?

¬†¬†¬† Boy: Because I want to check you out. ūüôā

5. Boy: Are you a television?

    Girl: Why?

¬†¬†¬† Boy: Because I want to turn you on. ūüôā

Okay! That’s it. I hope you guys didn’t get irritated with this post.

P.S.

Please don’t ask me why the girl just keeps saying “WHY”. That is just how it is. ūüôā And also, I am not the one who came up with this stuff, I have just heard this stuff in TV and in my convo with my friends and co-workers. I just decided to translate it in english and put it up, just to have a good laugh. ūüôā


It is a very dark day today.

The sun barely shed its glow.

The wind is blowing relentlessly.

Like¬†it is telling me something I¬†shouldn’t know.

It is a very cold night tonight.

Weather that is so conducive for sleep.

I have always loved nights like this.

But tonight this coldness is keeping me stiff.

It is a really big world out there.

Seven billion people that are trying to find their ways.

Seven billion souls are still figuring out who they are supposed to be.

Seven billion beings trying to survive every day.

It is such a mystery that in there are seven biliion people in this planet.

Yet one still feels isolated from the everyone else.

All shacked up in the corner, invisble to the world.

Imagine, Seven Billion people, yet she faces the world alone.

 


Disclaimer: I think I¬†already mentioned this in my previous entries in case I haven’t… Let me just clarify. I am not expert ony guys and relationship and I am not even expert on¬†my job so I am not saying that everything¬†written here is scientifically-proven. These are just figments of my mind’s never ending battle to think and analyze the words I hear, the notes I see, and the stories that were relayed to me. I am hoping that this post help those who are experiencing this kind of situation. ūüôā

You see I have been hearing and reading about guys who are¬†always STUCK in the FRIEND ZONE. For those of you who aren’t aware of¬†what the¬†FRIEND ZONE means…..

It is some kind of¬†a untangible¬†friendship boundary of some sort that some guys really wanted to cross but they cannot. It happens when a guy likes a girl that he is good friends with and he get stuck up with this friendship wall that he cannot even tell her how he feels and the girl doesn’t even have a clue that he likes her. To her, he is just a good friend that is always there for her and any idea of romance does not even cross her mind. She just never really thinks of him in a romantic way and the guy pretends that he doesn’t think of her in that way as well, but he is only fooling himself. He just stays friends with her though he wanted to be more than that, hence, the friend zone.

In short, the guys in the friend zone are always the “GOOD GUY FRIENDS” but never the ones that the girls fall for.

Here are the reasons that I can think of why guys in the FRIEND ZONE remains in the FRIEND ZONE:

1. You are still in the friend zone because…

YOU ARE TOO AFRAID TO TAKE CHANCES!

Yes.¬†You are too¬†scared that you won’t get the response that you are expecting so you’d rather stay back and watch other guys make their way to her heart. You¬†are always afraid that saying what you really feel because it may ruin your friendship. Hello!¬†Yes, if she doesn’t feel the same way then it might cause a little awkwardness but if you guys are really friends then you guys will find a way back to being better friends. You just have to accept the fact that she just thinks of you as a friend and nothing more. And eventually let your feelings go and then strengthen the friendship even more. But if¬†she likes you back then BINGO!

2. You are still in the FRIEND ZONE because…

YOU TREAT HER LIKE SHE’S ONE OF YOUR GUY FRIENDS.

Just because you want¬†to look cool and you don’t wanther to figure out that you¬†like her, you try your best to treat her like she is one of your bros. Calling her dude, bro, homey, and what not. Telling her about this imaginary girl that you’ve been crushing on. Teaching her the fist pump or secret handshake and all other guys stuff that you do with your boys.

Guess what??? You sure succeeded in hiding your feelings but you also succeeded in helping her cross you out in her romantic meter. Good Job!

3. You are¬†still in the friend zone because…

YOU ALWAYS MAKE YOURSELF AVAILABLE FOR HER!

One call and you’ll immediately drop everything that you are doing just to attend to whatever it is that she needs. She needs someone to help her move the furnitures in her house, you’ll be there. She needs someone to look after her dog, you’ll take care of her dog. She’s¬†having trouble with her project, you’ll volunteer to help her out… Normally, that is a good thing…. IF YOU GUYS ARE ALREADY TOGETHER. But since you guys are not together¬†yet, you should try be a good friend sometimes learn to say no or learn how to say yes without sounding too enthusiatic about it. ūüôā In that way, you seem a little mysterious and a little unpredictable and you’ll raise her interest. REMEMBER THE GOAL IS TO MAKE YOU “HER GUY” first then be her “GO-TO GUY”. Not the other way around. ūüôā

4. You are¬† still in the friend zone because…

YOU EVEN TRY TO SET HER UP WITH ANOTHER GUY THOUGH YOUR INSTINCTS ARE TELLING YOU NOT TO.

Being a good friend that you always are, you even try setting her up with your freind that she likes¬†or¬†with a friend of yours who likes her. That is just totally BAT SHIT CRAZY, MEN!¬†That’s a very uncomfortable thing to do so never everdo that! And if you already did then please do not repeat it. Again, Learn how¬†to say no!¬†If you can’t take the sight of her in some other guy’s arms then do not ever try to make that possible!

***There you go! I hope that helps.

In summary, to get yourself out of the FRIEND ZONE!

1. Be a MAN!

2. Summon up all the courage in the world and tell her how you feel. If she says yes then good. If she says no, then even better because¬†now you know that you being in the friend zone is not your fault, that means she just really wants¬†you to there and then just be friend. You will soon find someone who is willing to be your friend and¬†much more willing to be your lover. ūüôā

3.¬†If you confess and it didn’t work out, Don’t lose hope. ūüôā

xoxo