LIke a lovestruck teenager,
I am holding onto you.
But you don’t even know me,
you never had a clue.
About the love I feel,
Or the dreams I have inside.
You don’t even think about me,
yet you’re always in my mind.
Like a lovestruck teenager,
I’m writing letters everyday.
Though I never had the guts to send ’em to you.
But I keep on writing anyway.
About the everything I feel,
And all the love I want to give.
But you were always with someone else.
And my love, you cannot receive.
Still like a lovestruck teenager,
I am not afraid to let you know.
That your smile is my favorite vision.
and I can never let you go.
Another long deep breath
for a closing argument.
Another awkward silence
in the heated moment.
Afraid to say something wrong.
She said nothing at all.
He’s been waiting for so long.
Her answers are stalled.
He wants to talk about it.
She doesn’t want to argue.
He tried to say what’s in his head.
She believed it was untrue.
Doubt fills up her heart.
He’s slowly drifting away.
He was looking for a reason
for him to even stay.
She just let it all passed by.
She think It’ll be over soon.
He caught another’s eye.
The attention made him swoon.
While she pretended everything will be alright.
though that’s not what her heart and mind tells.
He decided to spend the night,
Not with her but with somebody else.
Small talks and Stolen glances
Hands are tied
But you’re taking chances
Just looking in yet standing outside
smells like another sin.
Stepped a toe out of line
Take your chances, thinking it is fine.
You removed your ring,
Rehearse your lines.
Let the games begin….
He’s playing his cards.
With coolness and suave
She’s taking part, hoping to love.
In the dark. In the night.
Two bodies collide.
She’s playing her heart.
He’s using his mind.
Now He got what he wanted.
He got rid of the heat.
He left her with nothing
but promises he couldn’t keep.
As I understand that the nature of my site is getting a little to dim because of my recent health-related problems and the same old, same old melancholy of a girl who feels lost. 🙂 So now, I am trying to shake things up a little by posting the first ever humor post (or an attempt at one).
I don’t know if all of you are aware but Nowadays, bat-shit crazy pick-up lines are really a sensation in the Philippines. So I just want to share some of the pick-up lines that I have heard and read. Ofcourse, I am going to translate it to english as most pick-up lines here in our country are conveniently being stated in our own language which is FILIPINO.
So here goes my attempt to be funny.:)
1. Boy: Are you a manure?
Boy: Because I can never ever treat you like a toy. 🙂
***This line is from a local movie.
2. Boy: Are you a spoon?
Boy: Because everytime I see you my jaw always drop. 🙂
3. Boy: Are you a robber?
Boy: Because I will definitely give you everything, just don’t hurt me. 🙂
4. Boy: Are you a testpaper?
Boy: Because I want to check you out. 🙂
5. Boy: Are you a television?
Boy: Because I want to turn you on. 🙂
Okay! That’s it. I hope you guys didn’t get irritated with this post.
Please don’t ask me why the girl just keeps saying “WHY”. That is just how it is. 🙂 And also, I am not the one who came up with this stuff, I have just heard this stuff in TV and in my convo with my friends and co-workers. I just decided to translate it in english and put it up, just to have a good laugh. 🙂
Disclaimer: I think I already mentioned this in my previous entries in case I haven’t… Let me just clarify. I am not expert ony guys and relationship and I am not even expert on my job so I am not saying that everything written here is scientifically-proven. These are just figments of my mind’s never ending battle to think and analyze the words I hear, the notes I see, and the stories that were relayed to me. I am hoping that this post help those who are experiencing this kind of situation. 🙂
You see I have been hearing and reading about guys who are always STUCK in the FRIEND ZONE. For those of you who aren’t aware of what the FRIEND ZONE means…..
It is some kind of a untangible friendship boundary of some sort that some guys really wanted to cross but they cannot. It happens when a guy likes a girl that he is good friends with and he get stuck up with this friendship wall that he cannot even tell her how he feels and the girl doesn’t even have a clue that he likes her. To her, he is just a good friend that is always there for her and any idea of romance does not even cross her mind. She just never really thinks of him in a romantic way and the guy pretends that he doesn’t think of her in that way as well, but he is only fooling himself. He just stays friends with her though he wanted to be more than that, hence, the friend zone.
In short, the guys in the friend zone are always the “GOOD GUY FRIENDS” but never the ones that the girls fall for.
Here are the reasons that I can think of why guys in the FRIEND ZONE remains in the FRIEND ZONE:
1. You are still in the friend zone because…
YOU ARE TOO AFRAID TO TAKE CHANCES!
Yes. You are too scared that you won’t get the response that you are expecting so you’d rather stay back and watch other guys make their way to her heart. You are always afraid that saying what you really feel because it may ruin your friendship. Hello! Yes, if she doesn’t feel the same way then it might cause a little awkwardness but if you guys are really friends then you guys will find a way back to being better friends. You just have to accept the fact that she just thinks of you as a friend and nothing more. And eventually let your feelings go and then strengthen the friendship even more. But if she likes you back then BINGO!
2. You are still in the FRIEND ZONE because…
YOU TREAT HER LIKE SHE’S ONE OF YOUR GUY FRIENDS.
Just because you want to look cool and you don’t wanther to figure out that you like her, you try your best to treat her like she is one of your bros. Calling her dude, bro, homey, and what not. Telling her about this imaginary girl that you’ve been crushing on. Teaching her the fist pump or secret handshake and all other guys stuff that you do with your boys.
Guess what??? You sure succeeded in hiding your feelings but you also succeeded in helping her cross you out in her romantic meter. Good Job!
3. You are still in the friend zone because…
YOU ALWAYS MAKE YOURSELF AVAILABLE FOR HER!
One call and you’ll immediately drop everything that you are doing just to attend to whatever it is that she needs. She needs someone to help her move the furnitures in her house, you’ll be there. She needs someone to look after her dog, you’ll take care of her dog. She’s having trouble with her project, you’ll volunteer to help her out… Normally, that is a good thing…. IF YOU GUYS ARE ALREADY TOGETHER. But since you guys are not together yet, you should try be a good friend sometimes learn to say no or learn how to say yes without sounding too enthusiatic about it. 🙂 In that way, you seem a little mysterious and a little unpredictable and you’ll raise her interest. REMEMBER THE GOAL IS TO MAKE YOU “HER GUY” first then be her “GO-TO GUY”. Not the other way around. 🙂
4. You are still in the friend zone because…
YOU EVEN TRY TO SET HER UP WITH ANOTHER GUY THOUGH YOUR INSTINCTS ARE TELLING YOU NOT TO.
Being a good friend that you always are, you even try setting her up with your freind that she likes or with a friend of yours who likes her. That is just totally BAT SHIT CRAZY, MEN! That’s a very uncomfortable thing to do so never everdo that! And if you already did then please do not repeat it. Again, Learn how to say no! If you can’t take the sight of her in some other guy’s arms then do not ever try to make that possible!
***There you go! I hope that helps.
In summary, to get yourself out of the FRIEND ZONE!
1. Be a MAN!
2. Summon up all the courage in the world and tell her how you feel. If she says yes then good. If she says no, then even better because now you know that you being in the friend zone is not your fault, that means she just really wants you to there and then just be friend. You will soon find someone who is willing to be your friend and much more willing to be your lover. 🙂
3. If you confess and it didn’t work out, Don’t lose hope. 🙂
Truth to be told,
I need you to hold.
My Hand, My Heart.
When can we even start?
Truth to be said,
You piled up in my head.
Your smile, Your skin.
My defenses are turning thin.
That’s the truth locked inside of me.
I am already setting it free.
Now that you have it in your hands…
Are you going to tell me, Where I should stand?
I think these are the things that guys shoould know about, if they want to get on a girl’s good side and maybe this will also help guys understand girls more.
1. Girls are sentimental.
That’s a random fact. A girl always likes to remember important things in her life. She also likes to cherish the moments that made her happy and the simple gifts or letters that she received. Like taking her out to see the stars, I’m sure she’ll have that image of you two under the night skies tattoed in her head. Or giving her a handwritten letter, I’m sure she’ll keep that in box and reads it when she misses you. Just give her something that she would love to remember and cherish then I’m sure she’ll be hooked.
2. Girls like hearing compliments.
I mean, who doesn’t? But you know, Girls, no matter, how strong and confident they may seem. They still would want other people to notice and compliment them. It’s not like their waiting on other people’s approval but it is theirway of knowing that they are appreciated. SO If you like a girl, make sure sure you compliment her in all the right ways. Never overcompliment her because she may think that you are insincere. Never undercompliment her because she may think you don’t know her worth. In other words, don’t say anything that you don’t really mean.
3. GIRLS like a guy who treats her well.
I know, most guys think that girls are into bad boys and the good guys are always left in the friends zone. But this isn’t true. Sure, AT one point in Every girl’s life, she may spend her time and energy chasing a bad boy and hoping that she’d be the one to change him. But sooner or later, when she is exhausted and aware that sometimes bad boys are just merely bad boys and there isn’t anything mysterious about it and she can never change him for the better because that’s just how he is, She will snap back to reality and she’ll remember that she deserves a guy who’s willing to do right by her and someone she can definitely rely on. So that’s your cue guys, Bad boys are just short experiments. Good guys are life-long journeys! So try your best to be a good guy. 🙂
4. Girls like a guy who can make her laugh.
Girls would definitely like a guy with a good sense of humor. Someone who can make her laugh. Someone whom she can be silly with. Someone whom she can be herself with. It doesn’t matter if you have bad comic timing or you always throw the punch line wrong a girl know how to appreciate the efforts you give in order to make her laugh.
5. GIRLS who say NO really means No.
Yes. I know most guys think girls like to play hard-to-get and sometimes they really do play hard-to-get. But trust me, you know the difference. If you like a girl says no to you yet still gives you signals then she is playing hard to get, all you have to do is just reachout to her more and be patient with her then you can definitely win her over. But if a girl says no to you and she’s making an effort for you to notice the boundaries and she keeps on turning you down, then she is not pplaying hard-to-get, she simply saying not-gonna-happen. It sucks, I know. But maybe she is just not the girl for you.
I have no scientific proof with regards to this.
This are just my humble thoughts.
If you have anything to add or you have complaints, Please
say it in a nice way. 🙂 Thanks
Since I posted yesterday about the kinds of guy every girl should not look for so I think I owe it to the guys to write about the kinds of girl every guy should not look for. So here it is:
1. MS. Price is right a.k.a Gold diggers
Ofcourse, I think every guy should be careful the gold diggers. This girls can be undeniably charming most of the times and guys just couldn’t say NO to their every requests. You have to know how to spot the gold diggers, they are the ones that are so into expensive objects and into money itself. They always ask you to buy stuff for them. Everytime you two are together you will spend tons of money in order to give here everything that she asks for. If you are rich and you have all the money to spend, please don’t date a gold digger. Just donate your money to Charity or something. 🙂
2. MS. EASY BREEZY Imma date all the hot guys a.k.a The ULTIMATE PLAYER
PLAYERS are the woman counterpart of WOMANIZERS. They are known for taking every thing they can get. They date around as if it is a hobby or something. They are the ones who can’t keep track of ht guys they went out with. If your not looking for something serious and you just want t play around as well, then you two can play that game. But If you are looking for something serious the she’s definitely not the girl for you.
3. MS. Non-stop jelly Imma check your phone, Imma check your email, Imma check your beeper, or even your diary if you have one a.k.a. Insanely Jealous
We all get jealous. Its normal to feel that way but if a girl gets an extra dose of the super mega duper JEALOUSY potion then that’s where the real problem begins. The insanely jealous ones always feel threatened. They act as if every girl is bound to stole you from her. She may play it cool sometimes but deep inside she has this crazy ideas as to how she can make absolutely sure that you only have her in your mind. She’s jealous of every one aroound her. You can’t be friends with a girl because that will be a red signal. Due to her overflowing jealousy she may result to invading your personal space by checking your phone messages or emails, and evereything else that she can get her hands on. Seriously, If a girl loves you the she should TRUST you.
4. MS. BOXED OUT YOU CAN”T GO ANYWHERE WITHOUT ME KNOWING a.k.a The FEELING WARDEN
There’s nothing wrong with being possessive but if you’re gonna date the FEELING WARDEN then be ready to be controlled. WARDENS are usually the ones who want to know every single detail about you and where you’re going and who you’re with. Sometimes they would even go to the extreme of not allowing you to go some place her going with you. They are the jealous ones who wants to put the law into their own hands by dictating what are the things you should do or not do. They are the ones who will make a big deal about you hanging out with friends without her. They keep on texting and monitoring your every move. It’s like having an ankle monitor. So if you love your freedom, the don’t date a FEELING warden. 🙂
5. Ms. I want to be with to be with you every nanosecond of everyday a.k.a THE CLINGY
When you love someone, it is perfectly normal that you want to spend time with that person but for the”CLINGY” girls, itd different. They want to be with you literally every single nanosecond of your life. They wanted to go on all places you are going. They will invade your time with your boys and when you two aren’t together she will bombard you with her calls and sweet messages. She woulld also want to bring you in every activity that she has. ALthough, you should be thankful that she only has her eyes set on you but this kind of behavior is not healthy. Two people can fall in love and still keep their individuality and personal space. You should find a girl who wants to be with you but also understand that you are two individuals and you have your own lives. 🙂
6. Ms. I’m right and your wrong so don’t bother argue with me a.k.a. CONTROL FREAK
This type of girl wants to be in control of every situation that you guys have. She will most likely not listen to whatever it is that you have to say, she just listens to herself. When you are right you’re wrong, when she is right, she’s right! When you are wrong, you’re wrong, When she’s wrong, she’s STILL RIGHT! That’s how it is with her. Your relationship will be mostly about how you lost to every arguments that you guys have. You will argue endlessly, you will even argue because of very little things like when you are driving and she asked you to take a different route and you ended up in traffic or when she specifically asks you to wear a sky blue shirt and your just wearing blue. So if you don’t have your game face and if you’re not ready to lose every single time, then don’t date the control freaks! 🙂
COPYRIGHT JUNE 2012
Here’s my list of the kinds of guy that every girl shouldn’t look for. Maybe some of you will/will not agree with it. But thanks for still reading it.
Disclaimer: This is just my opinion and something I have wriitten due to my boredom.
And for the guys, Please don’t be offended about what’s wriitten here. I know most of you guys are not perfect but most are respectable and decent and faithful. I said MOST and NOT ALL because there some who do not posses those positive attributes and possess the opposites of it.
I hope this can serve as a guide or whatever. 🙂
1. “Mr. I am a Ladies’ Man” a.k.a. Womanizers
Yes. That’s Numero Uno on my list. There’s a diffrence with being friendly and being a womanizer. Although some guys use their friendliness as an excuse to be around girls all the time. You can differentiate womanizers to the naturally friendly ones by being observant. Womanizers are the ones who are in constant look outfor the so called “hot chicks”. They always want to be seen doing stuff that they think is cool and saying things that they thought women would like to hear. They are the ones who take every opportunity they have to be with a girl/s that’s on their radar. So if you have seen these traits to a guy you like, then I’ve got two word for you, STAY AWAY!
2. “MR. Big shot look at my car” a.k.a. The Car Slave
Yes. I get it. Guys are more passionate about cars and girls appreciate that. There’s nothing wrong with loving cars just as long as you know where the boundaties are. However, If a guy just can’t shut the hell up about his car and talks more about his car than the other stuff that you two should talk about then WALK AWAY. Clearly, that guy is more into his car than into you. Or when guys brag about their car to each other in front of you
Dude1: Yeah dude, I just got it detailed. Real sleek finish! Cost me a lot of money just in the exterior.
Dude2: I feel yah dude, I spent tons of money just in the wheels. I want it blacker than everyone else’s.
Dude1: That’s sweet! I thinking about getting a bigger engine. Bigger and noisier, blah blah.
Seriously, DON’T DATE A GUY LIKE THAT!
3. Mr. BRAG ME TO HELL a.k.a THE BRAGGERS
We all brag every once in a while but if the bragging is uncontrolable then it will be very Obnoxios and absurd. Braggers are the ones who just never stop showing off. Like they have they inflated heads to top their inflated egso. They brag about simple things like their clothes, their shoes, their sexual conquests, their manhood, their psychotic streaks and every other thing that you can think of. They even brag about their vices and misdemeanors. I don’t even need to reason out as to why you shouln’t date the braggers because the description itself can put the fire out. DON’T DATE A BRAGGER UNLESS YOU ARE AN UNCONTROLABLE BRAGGER YOURSELF. 🙂
4. Mr. Sexually Pre-Occupied a.k.a SPO
It is normal to think about sex, it is human nature. But when a guy has nothing but sex on his mind then that’s a NO-NO! If a guy tells everyone about his sexual escapades or if a guy speaks non-stop about girls in graphic terms or every time he opens his mouth words of highly sexual nature comes out of it then you shouldn’t date him, especially if you are looking for something serious and something meaningful.
5. Mr. I already said I do on the altar a.k.a the Married ones
I don’t really need to explain this as well. So if you don’t want any headaches or troubles then don’t date the married ones!
6. Mr. I accepted your shitty past so you have no right to complain a.k.a Plastics
Yes there are some guys who will use your past to make you feel bad about yourself and lower your self-esteem. They are the ones who pretend that they are really good to accept whatever it is that you’ve done in the past, Only to find out later that every time he commits a mistake,he will constantly remind you of how he accepted your past. And if you’re dating a guy like this, then here’s a reality check: HE NEVER REALLY ACCEPTED YOUR PAST AND MAYBE HE NEVER WILL. If he has accepted your past then he wouldn’t use your past against you because whatever it is that you did before you met him, he cannot hold any hard feelings about it. If he really loves you, then he should love you for who you are. 🙂
Yesterday was my day-off. So I did what I really do best when I don’t have any important things to do:
I bummed around the house and watch as many movies as I can. I ran out of movies to watch so I decided to watch something that I already seen a few years back ———— SYDNEY WHITE!
For those of you who have no idea what this movie is, It’s kinda a modern version of SNOW WHITE.
Sydney White (Amanda Bynes) is an 18-year old girl who is raised by her dad. Her mom died when she was 9 and her dad with the help of his construction worker friends were the ones that was there for her. She goes to college and was supposed to pledge to her Mom’s old sorority but then things didn’t turn out as she planned and she ended up living with 7 interesting dorks who are currently on the verge of losing their house. Subsequently, because of her all-natural, no false pretenses attitude, the most popular guy on campus, Tyler Prince (Matt Long) fell in love with her much to the dismay of the reighning queen bee greek president Rachel Witchburn (Sara Paxton).
But that’s not point of this blog entry.
I’m writing this because I’m curious, DOES THAT KIND OF STUFF HAPPEN IN REAL LIFE?
Can a guy really fall for a girl who doesn’t fit in? Who doesn’t act gracefully and who doesn’t know the right things to say? Do guys like that reslly fall for a girl who has a great personality and a big heart?
Guys are pretty complicated beings. I’m sure all guys are saying the same thing about girls. We were never an expert on each other.
So where can we find a guy who just doesn’t give damn about how you look and dress? Where can we find someone who doesn’t care that you say all the wrong things in all the wrong times when you are with him? Where can we find someone who can see the real us and doesn’t turn his back? Where can we find someone who can love us for exactly what we are?
If someone knew the answers to this questions then probably that someone is bombarded by people who wants to find that kind of love. But unfortunately, no one knew the answer to this questions. I guess we need to find the answers within ourselves.
Times like this, I wished my life will be like a movie. When a guy just shows up out nowhere in my time of despair and he’ll just take me away from it all. Oh no! IT’s OFFICIAL! I’m definitely a HOPELESS ROMANTIC! Or MAYBE HOPELESS alone.
But seriously, I wished to get the happy ending that I’ve been dreaming and praying about. And I hope someday, I would stop writing about how I am envious of the things that I see in films, and start writing about how I met my true love.. But since my TRUE LOVE is MIA. then you guys are stuck with my random rants and I’m stuck with my thoughts. 🙂