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It’s been quite some time since i last posted something here. I don’t know why but these past few weeks I have had a hard time writing. Trust me, I tried several times to write in the past days, I had few unfinished works that I couldn’t really give a good closing words to.
Maybe it’s the stresses of life, work, and dreams. But I never want to ever lose my ability to string words together. It’s too important for me to give up, It’s one of the few things that made me feel good.
I remember the first time that I didn’t blog for 9 days. I posted my explanation as to why I wasn’t able to write during that period. But its different before, I was so busy and I tired but I knew then I still have the words in my head. But over the last few weeks of my silence, I was worried because I really don’t have the words.
Today I woke up, still not knowing what to write but I remembered the advice that another blogger, a very wise man and friend, told me before. He said “Come back to writing when you are ready.”
And I think I am ready now. So I am writing again. Forgive me if my new future works suck or what not. I am still at lost but I am trying to find the words and hopefully I can. 🙂


Yes, This is the counterpart of my post a few weeks back, “5 facts about girls”. It took me a while to create a follow-up on that post because it is really hard to figure out boys especially if you are a girl. 🙂 Anyway so I decided to just decided to take my time and observe until I can actually come up with my own hypotheis or whatever you want to call it. Again, I am not claiming that everything written here is correct. These are just my humbled thoughts.

So without further a do. Here it is.

1. Boys love to date naughty girls for fun but they date good girls for love.

Well. I think this is self-explanatory.

2.  Boys never really like girls with heavy make-up on. They dig our no make-up look.

Yes. Boys like girls who look neat and presentable but they don’t really like girls who look like they will be accepting an acting hoour every single moment of the day. It is okay to put on a little make-up every once in a while. But if you’re everyday look consists of putting layers of foundation in your face, the concealer, then powder, then add eye shadow, and eve liner, eye brow liner, mascara, blush on, lipstick, and lip gloss then that’ something you’d have to think twice about. You don’t want your bf or boy-friends to not be able to recognize you when they surprise you in your house and see your no-make-up look. Unless, you also have the heavy make-up on at home.

3. Boys’s eyes may glance for a few seconds sexy girls but there will always be this girl that he just can’t stop staring at.

 As the saying goes “Boys will be boys.” Yes, Physical attributes can really draw the attention of the guys but when eventually found someone who they love staring at then there will be a few moments that they will glance but they will never stare because the already have their eyes set on someone else.

4. Boys love spending time with the girls they love but they also need their Boys night out.

Ofcourse, Every guy loves to spend time with their gf or special someone but there will always be a time that they will crave to hang out with his gang. Let him do so! Let them have their testosterone-fest! Don’t worry.

5. Guys like to make the first move but they don’t mind if girls make the first move.

Yes I think that though we are already in the year 2012, still, most guys are the ones who are doing the first move. However, I think guys in our time no longer care if they made the first move or not. As long as you two have chemistry, then he woudn’t mind!

The end. 🙂 Hope to hear from ya!


Not just half-awake but wide awake. I have always thought of writing a novel. And for few occasions, I started writing, but halfway through the intro, I always feel that I am not ready. I have no formal training in writng and I always end up doubting myself and thinking that It will be a waste of time. Now I realized that doubting myself is an awful way of wasting time. I should have continued writing those unfinished works. I would have had, give or take two sucky unpublished novels by now but nonetheless I could have used all the experience that I could have gain in order to improve my craft and write something better but I was so scared to fail and be bad at it that I chose not to continue writing.

But I know now that Writing is way too important to give up just like that.

It is time for me to write my first novel and I know it will not be easy.

And maybe I will fail to do so, but what is life without taking risk?

I will write because it makes me feel good and it is something that I want to be good at.And when are passionate about something, you just need not question your abilities and just do it.  And if in time, I will fail to finish this novel, It is comforting to know that I tried.

But I am kinda hoping that I will finish it. So I better start writing now. 🙂


SO this is ROOFTOPS by LOST PROPHETS.

From how I understand this song, its about being able to live your life to the fullest. It’s about living your life as if you were to die tomorrow. It’s about how we should take chances and to not be afraid to fail.

It’s about how we should not look back to the past with regrets. Our mistakes and shortcomings made us better and wiser.

I just love hearing this song because it is way too good to be ignored. Somehow, this song has its ways of making me feel positive about the future.

I hope we all get to live the rest of our lives in the best way possible.

Hope we all get the chance to have a “ROOFTOP moment” and just scream our hearts out! 🙂

Note:

I do not own the video.

I got it from youtube.


“Perhaps we all give the best of our hearts uncritically–to those who hardly think about us in return.”
― T.H. White, The Once and Future King

It makes me wonder what pushed the brilliant author, T.H. White, to write those hauntingly painful words. It makes me want to ask him “Who broke your heart?”.

Well, I guess I will never know why he wrote those words. But I know why I can relate to it. It seems like an arrow was shot directly to my heart. There I go again, with my sad sobby words. Anyway, I think most of us at one point in our lives experienced giving the best of our hearts to people who can’t do the same for us.

And It is such a shame when you have so much love to give but the person you intend to give it to just couldn’t take it. But that’s how love works, you may never know if your love will ever be reciprocated. That’s what’s beautiful about it, the elements of mystery and surprise.

Loving is not a walk in the park especially if the object of affection  does not love you in return.

But True love means not asking for something in return. It does not involve rushing to be in a relationship and it isn’t even about just finding someone to get you through your cold nights!

True love is about learning how to wait patiently for the perfect timing and for the person perfect for you. It’s about giving and giving even more. It’s about knowing that you found that one person that you want to spend you whole life with and making him feel always loved and wanted. Its about respecting yourself and the other person.

How I wish, we could all just find true love and live happily every after, just like in the movies.

But then Again, this is real life and life is what we make it and love like you have never been hurt before.


My life’s getting more boring than ever. Thinking of ways to shake things up a little.

They say we only have one life and we should savor every moment of it.

I think that’s something that I really need to do.

I need to lessen my worrying and live a lot more.

Now where do I start? 🙂


Yesterday was my day-off. So I did what I really do best when I don’t have any important things to do:

I bummed around the house and watch as many movies as I can. I ran out of movies to watch so I decided to watch something that I already seen a few years back ———— SYDNEY WHITE!

For those of you who have no idea what this movie is, It’s kinda a modern version of SNOW WHITE.

Sydney White (Amanda Bynes) is an 18-year old girl who is raised by her dad. Her mom died when she was 9 and her dad with the help of his construction worker friends were the ones that was there for her. She goes to college and was supposed to pledge to her Mom’s old sorority but then things didn’t turn out as she planned and she ended up living with 7 interesting dorks who are currently on the verge of losing their house. Subsequently, because of her all-natural, no false pretenses attitude, the most popular guy on campus, Tyler Prince (Matt Long)  fell in love with her  much to the dismay of the reighning queen bee greek president Rachel Witchburn (Sara Paxton).

But that’s not point of this blog entry.

I’m writing this because I’m curious, DOES THAT KIND OF STUFF HAPPEN IN REAL LIFE?

Can a guy really fall for a girl who doesn’t fit in? Who doesn’t act gracefully and who doesn’t know the right things to say? Do guys like that reslly fall for a girl who has a great personality and a big heart?

Guys are pretty complicated beings. I’m sure all guys are saying the same thing about girls. We were never an expert on each other.

So where can we find a guy who just doesn’t give damn about how you look and dress? Where can we find someone who doesn’t care that  you say all the wrong things in all the wrong times when you are with him? Where can we find someone who can see the real us and doesn’t turn his back? Where can we find someone who can love us for exactly what we are?

If someone knew the answers to this questions then probably that someone is bombarded by people who wants to find that kind of love. But unfortunately, no one knew the answer to this questions. I guess we need to find the answers within ourselves.

Times like this, I wished my life will be like a movie. When a guy just shows up out nowhere in my time of   despair and he’ll just take me away from it all. Oh no! IT’s OFFICIAL! I’m definitely a HOPELESS ROMANTIC! Or MAYBE HOPELESS alone.

But seriously, I wished to get the happy ending that I’ve been dreaming and praying about. And I hope someday, I would stop writing about how I am envious of the things that I see in films, and start writing about how I met my true love.. But since my TRUE LOVE is MIA. then you guys are stuck with my random rants and I’m stuck with my thoughts. 🙂