It’s been quite some time since i last posted something here. I don’t know why but these past few weeks I have had a hard time writing. Trust me, I tried several times to write in the past days, I had few unfinished works that I couldn’t really give a good closing words to.
Maybe it’s the stresses of life, work, and dreams. But I never want to ever lose my ability to string words together. It’s too important for me to give up, It’s one of the few things that made me feel good.
I remember the first time that I didn’t blog for 9 days. I posted my explanation as to why I wasn’t able to write during that period. But its different before, I was so busy and I tired but I knew then I still have the words in my head. But over the last few weeks of my silence, I was worried because I really don’t have the words.
Today I woke up, still not knowing what to write but I remembered the advice that another blogger, a very wise man and friend, told me before. He said “Come back to writing when you are ready.”
And I think I am ready now. So I am writing again. Forgive me if my new future works suck or what not. I am still at lost but I am trying to find the words and hopefully I can. 🙂
Yes, This is the counterpart of my post a few weeks back, “5 facts about girls”. It took me a while to create a follow-up on that post because it is really hard to figure out boys especially if you are a girl. 🙂 Anyway so I decided to just decided to take my time and observe until I can actually come up with my own hypotheis or whatever you want to call it. Again, I am not claiming that everything written here is correct. These are just my humbled thoughts.
So without further a do. Here it is.
1. Boys love to date naughty girls for fun but they date good girls for love.
Well. I think this is self-explanatory.
2. Boys never really like girls with heavy make-up on. They dig our no make-up look.
Yes. Boys like girls who look neat and presentable but they don’t really like girls who look like they will be accepting an acting hoour every single moment of the day. It is okay to put on a little make-up every once in a while. But if you’re everyday look consists of putting layers of foundation in your face, the concealer, then powder, then add eye shadow, and eve liner, eye brow liner, mascara, blush on, lipstick, and lip gloss then that’ something you’d have to think twice about. You don’t want your bf or boy-friends to not be able to recognize you when they surprise you in your house and see your no-make-up look. Unless, you also have the heavy make-up on at home.
3. Boys’s eyes may glance for a few seconds sexy girls but there will always be this girl that he just can’t stop staring at.
As the saying goes “Boys will be boys.” Yes, Physical attributes can really draw the attention of the guys but when eventually found someone who they love staring at then there will be a few moments that they will glance but they will never stare because the already have their eyes set on someone else.
4. Boys love spending time with the girls they love but they also need their Boys night out.
Ofcourse, Every guy loves to spend time with their gf or special someone but there will always be a time that they will crave to hang out with his gang. Let him do so! Let them have their testosterone-fest! Don’t worry.
5. Guys like to make the first move but they don’t mind if girls make the first move.
Yes I think that though we are already in the year 2012, still, most guys are the ones who are doing the first move. However, I think guys in our time no longer care if they made the first move or not. As long as you two have chemistry, then he woudn’t mind!
The end. 🙂 Hope to hear from ya!
SO this is ROOFTOPS by LOST PROPHETS.
From how I understand this song, its about being able to live your life to the fullest. It’s about living your life as if you were to die tomorrow. It’s about how we should take chances and to not be afraid to fail.
It’s about how we should not look back to the past with regrets. Our mistakes and shortcomings made us better and wiser.
I just love hearing this song because it is way too good to be ignored. Somehow, this song has its ways of making me feel positive about the future.
I hope we all get to live the rest of our lives in the best way possible.
Hope we all get the chance to have a “ROOFTOP moment” and just scream our hearts out! 🙂
Note:
I do not own the video.
I got it from youtube.
“Perhaps we all give the best of our hearts uncritically–to those who hardly think about us in return.”
― T.H. White, The Once and Future King
It makes me wonder what pushed the brilliant author, T.H. White, to write those hauntingly painful words. It makes me want to ask him “Who broke your heart?”.
Well, I guess I will never know why he wrote those words. But I know why I can relate to it. It seems like an arrow was shot directly to my heart. There I go again, with my sad sobby words. Anyway, I think most of us at one point in our lives experienced giving the best of our hearts to people who can’t do the same for us.
And It is such a shame when you have so much love to give but the person you intend to give it to just couldn’t take it. But that’s how love works, you may never know if your love will ever be reciprocated. That’s what’s beautiful about it, the elements of mystery and surprise.
Loving is not a walk in the park especially if the object of affection does not love you in return.
But True love means not asking for something in return. It does not involve rushing to be in a relationship and it isn’t even about just finding someone to get you through your cold nights!
True love is about learning how to wait patiently for the perfect timing and for the person perfect for you. It’s about giving and giving even more. It’s about knowing that you found that one person that you want to spend you whole life with and making him feel always loved and wanted. Its about respecting yourself and the other person.
How I wish, we could all just find true love and live happily every after, just like in the movies.
But then Again, this is real life and life is what we make it and love like you have never been hurt before.
My life’s getting more boring than ever. Thinking of ways to shake things up a little.
They say we only have one life and we should savor every moment of it.
I think that’s something that I really need to do.
I need to lessen my worrying and live a lot more.
Now where do I start? 🙂
You walked my way yet you passed me by.
I said hello but you never said “hi”.
I wrote you letters, you never wrote me back.
You just didn’t care,that’s a fact.
So this is what it feels like to be ignored…
Surprisingly, not a very good feeling.
When he’s all that you can think of
and to him you have no meaning.
So this is how it feels to be unwanted…
When you’re willing to give him the world
and to him you’re just nothing.
I’d like to think that someday….
It will get better.
I’d like to think that someday you will notice.
But until that day comes,
I’ll just settle with the feeling of being ignored.
while you remain unaware of what you are missing. 🙂
I want to be someone with unwavering faith.
Someone who believes that everything happens for a reason.
Someone who listens and never questions.
Someone who faces challenges without fears,
Because he just knows he can trust in Him.
But I am not that person, or at least not right now.
Because in times of deep troubles, I immediately bow.
My questions starts filling in, my frustrations filling me.
I just don’t understand why things are not what I want them to be.
I know it’s not right to be this way.
I’m supposed to trust His plans.
I’m supposed to kneel and pray.
I’m supposed to let Him lead my life.
and that’s not the case.
But Someday, I hope I can let go of my fears.
I hope somday I can just trust and believe.
I hope someday I’ll stop questioning and start listening.
I hope that day will come soon, because when it does,
I know I’ll be happy and that’s when I can say that I am now a woman of great faith.
I dream of you today,
the kind of dream that I wish didn’t have to end
I though of you today,
with the kind of thoughts that got me thinking, maybe I should write a novel,
the romantic ones.
I’m singing about you today,
with the kind of song where the guy takes a girl
and it was the best day of their lives.
I’m missing you today,
the kind of miss that makes me want to
squeeze myself into your arms.
I’m loving you today,
the kind of love that feels so real and hopefully someday
you’ll feel it too.
kountingkrishes 